Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Dating Tips 4 Men




When we log on www.datingtips4men.com we will see a face of a women with "make her want you" on the right side. This web site basically is for those who want to learn how to attract people and to meet them. That's why they use "learn how to meet and attract beautiful women...even if you aren't tall, rich or handsome" in their website. This website is lack of graphics that can be used to make the website attractive and at the same time do not makes people bored with the simple texts and words. The administrative also can put some pictures related to the contains of the website and relevant icons to make it easy for the users.

Among the contains on the web site, there is something that captured my eyes. It is the 10 most dangerous mistakes you probably make with women and what to do with it. They listed 10 mistakes men usually do and must be avoided in building a relationship. They are;
  • Mistake 1: Being too much of a "nice guy" - Women do not base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful gut level attraction for them.
  • Mistake 2: Trying to "convince her to like you" - You will never change how a women "feels" when it comes to attraction. You cannot "convince" a women to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".
  • Mistake 3: Looking to her for approval or permission - You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
  • Mistake 4: Trying to "buy" her affection with food and drinks -"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection". Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
  • Mistake 5: Sharing "how you feel" too early in the relationship with her -And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast and can't control themselves. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way.
  • Mistake 6: Not "getting" how attraction works for women - Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
  • Mistake 7: Thinking that it takes money and looks - One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money or guys who are a certain height or guys who are a certain age. But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
  • Mistake 8: Giving away all of your power to women - Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants. Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over. Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
  • Mistake 9: Not knowing exactly what to do in each type of situation with women -Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up and LOSE EVERYTHING. And you KNOW it. It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
  • Mistake 10: Not getting help - This is the biggest mistake of all. This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

So guys, take the right steps in starting or making a good relationship.